There’s an app on Facebook called the Honesty Box. It’s basically a drop box that anyone can write a short note to you anonymously. It seems like a great idea at first. Let the person know what you truly think of them, something that could embarrass you, them, or both of you.

I was reading the comments made about this app on Twitter, and things don’t turn out so well. Being able to comment anonymously, just like anywhere else on the web, seems to promote this sense of freedom write anything. This can sometimes include nasty comments, or even vulgar language and threats.

The app is a mixed bag. If you have caring friends, it’s a great method to find out something that is difficult to share. If you have enemies, watch out for the real truth. Fortunately, whatever is written in the comment box is only shown to the sender and receiver and anyone else the two of you share it with.

Technically, you shouldn’t be able to find out who submits the comments to your Honesty Box, but I have a feeling that this is possible without too much effort. The app states that the identity won’t be shown unless it violates the Terms of Service. Clues can be sprinkled in the message. Misspellings, wording choice, and topic can lead to your best friend. Are you a good detective? The motivation to figure it out can definitely drive this investigation.

Just like anything on the internet, be sure what you write in the anonymous Honesty Box is truly something you wouldn’t mind being linked to your name. If it isn’t, you might think twice. A friend who asks for your honest opinion, and which you share because of the hidden medium, could change that relationship. The truth is in the details.